canvas, nobby beach qld

canvas

Canvas Coffee. 7/2221 Gold Coast Highway, Nobby Beach.Tricky to find (it’s actually a little way down a side street), this place is well known to locals as a spot for great coffee.

A mix of quirky gift shop and cafe, this was a crowded space with a few spots to sit inside amidst t-shirts, books, toys, and much more. There’s plenty for kids to do here, with their own toys to play with and opportunities to draw. 

Coffee is good here: if you’re up this way, it’s worth calling in for a visit.

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Official site – www.ilovecanvas.com.au

Book: The Godfather

The Godfather is one of the novels on the BBC Book Meme list – having watched the movie but not read the book it was something of a backward experience. There’s some extra violence and other (ahem) adult behaviour in the book that’s not in the movie, and it’s fascinating to think that people like this might exist, and that power might be handled in this way. A sometimes troubling read, but well put together, and deserving its place on the list.

loss

Memorial site

It’s been a sad week. First I want to spend a moment acknowledging the sadness of two families whose lives merged in a tragic way this week, with the death of a five-year-old boy who was hit by a car while walking to school with his Mum.

An intersection I walked past every day on my own way to school, where a quiet street meets a busy street. There’s been a big outpouring of community grief – I’ve never seen the equal of this telegraph pole memorial.

It’s too early to say exactly what happened that morning, though the local press has some opinions to share. Reduce the speed limits! More police presence! Stop people double-parking!

Later in the week, we see the school massacre in Newtown, Connecticut, and a knife attack, wounding over 20 children in a school in China. Do we argue with Roger Ebert that it’s the media’s approach to reporting that is to blame: helping troubled kids find someone who will listen, even if it’s too late when they finally do? That works for the US case, but not the China one.

Christian blogger Nathan Campbell has reflected on this, the first US school massacre since he became a father, and using it as an opportunity to think through the problems with the human heart. Are the Christians onto something when they say that there’s a problem with everyone that can’t be fixed?

Elsewhere, there are cartoons trying to make the point that mental health care is much harder to access than firearms, articles listing all the mass shootings in the US since Columbine.

You might have noticed Rupert Murdoch and Malcolm Turnbull interacting on twitter on the subject.  It might be obvious to someone from a country with strict gun control that there’s an easy fix to all this, but gun ownership is a much stronger part of American culture than it is here in Australia.

As obvious as it might be to Australians, it’s nowhere near as self-evident across the US. So it seems (as ever) that there’s no easy fix to this particular long-running conflict.

But in the midst of this week’s sadness, let the reader remember, are heartbroken families heading into the Christmas season – a holiday that emphasises family gatherings.

These families that are a little smaller, damaged by loss. And as tempting as a soapbox may appear, it will do little to help. If you have the chance, showing some compassion, and some practical help would be more effective than joining the echo chamber and throwing more mud around: sharing an opinion on who to blame. 

For myself, I’ll be praying for the families involved, as they grieve, and that later they might see some hope in the message of Christmas: the start of an earthly life that can transform everything.

holidays

It’s been a long year, but I’ve finished two more college subjects and have only one to go. I’m celebrating by taking some time out with the family. Looking forward to it, and to starting to plan out some new projects (and my last college subject).

Beanstalk cafe, Thirroul

Beanstalk Cafe, Thirroul

 Aroma coffee. Corner of Lawrence Hargrave Drive and Railway Pde, Thirroul. Driving down from Sydney to Wollongong I saw this place out the car window, and after a long drive it was something of an oasis to call in to on the way back north. Plenty of tables outside, and then surprisingly few tables when you walk inside. Imagine my surprise, after ordering some food, a coffee, and a couple of babycinos when they say “have a seat in the bookshop”. Walk through the interior door and you’re in a spacious bookshop that seems to have an emphasis on cookbooks. There’s even a second hand section. 

The food is freshly made and very tasty, and the coffee is competently put together. If you’re down the coast looking for a place to stop and recharge, then this is a good one.


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dislocated

Time for reflection is rare at the moment: my dance card (as it were) is pretty full at the moment, and it doesn’t leave a lot of time for thinking big thoughts. At least it’s only for a season. I’ve had this idea for a post percolating for a while. Here we go.

 

I was walking past the local train station a couple of weeks back, and realised that I felt dis-located.

The house I grew up in, as far as I knew, had always existed, and always would. My place in the world.

When you’re small, it doesn’t take much to feel at home. The place where you sleep, some toys, the building you live in, your suburb.

Grow a little older, and the concept of home becomes more complicated. Meet someone, settle down: start a new home, perhaps away from where you started. Maybe have some kids of your own, create the notion of home for them. Grow older, watch them grow up and move out. 

You still have a home, but now you’re actively involved in keeping the place running. And then, you reach the time in life where you have the most possessions you will ever own.

Suddenly, it’s time to downsize. Give things away, or sell them. Try and make sure your most significant possessions end up with the people that matter most to you. if you live long enough, you’ll move into successively smaller living spaces – from house to room to bed-with-cupboard.

Eventually, you’ll own nothing at all. The notion of home finally disappearing, as you’re dislocated once and for all.

And what next?

elatte cafe, padstow heights

cafe elatte, padstow heights

Allpress Espresso. 101 Villiers Rd, Padstow Heights. After a long time searching the green train line in Sydney for promising cafes, I’d all but given up finding anything that was putting forward a quality cup of coffee. I’d noticed a sign on Henry Lawson Drive that mentioned the cafe, and thought I’d try it out. It’s in a refurbished corner store – major refurbishment, and a really homey space. 

cafe elatte, padstow heights

There’s a bit staff working behind the scenes, they’re very child-friendly, and their coffee is solid – even their espresso.


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book: Religion for Atheists

Religion for Atheists: A Non-believer’s Guide to the Uses of Religion

I picked this one up in the bible college library, having read some of Alain de Botton’s work in the past. Many books written from an atheist perspective (notably Dawkins’ The God Delusion) takes the stance that religion is entirely a bad thing for the world. Botton takes a different approach, asking if there’s anything that we can learn from the way religion fills the gaps in modern life. In a series of chapters, different aspects of religion are covered (community, kindness, education, tenderness, pessimism, perspective, art, architecture), with the concept “what can we learn from this, remove the God aspects, and then put into practice”.

It’s a reflective work, and easy to read, while showing that Botton has read widely, and in depth on the topics he’s chosen to present. While certainly not supportive of religion, it at least doesn’t descend to the kind of ridicule or hostility that I’ve seen in other books and columns. In the final chapter, he cites Auguste Comte as the one in whose footsteps he treads) and his failed attempt to create a temple of humanity. It is in this unhappy light that we sense that all his recommendations will have little widespread impact, even as Christians might hope that a work like this might make the idea of religion seem a little less ridiculous to atheists.